This is such a huge problem with regards to asexuality that I despise seeing it, because everyone seems to be of the mindset that they don't need to do coding, or don't think about the deeper implications that come with living in a sex-obsessed world. It especially doesn't help that people near exclusively do aroace so they don't need to think about it, necessitating an explanation that no, those are two separate things. Refusing to ever separate them causes harm, and doesn't represent ace/allos or aro/allos, despite the common consensus being that it does.