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Yeah, like I get being defensive to some extent, but some people take it too far. I had a friend who would say stuff like "Your opinion on X doesn't matter because you're a man" and would label any man who disagreed with him as being an advocate for toxic masculinity regardless of the person or context.

It was dehumanizing, I'm glad I took my distance from that person :moxiecry:
Yeah some people are toxic speakers, sometimes it’s person. Knew a guy who liked to do a “bit” where he constantly finds people’s “weaknesses” and exploit them to rile them up. Was a real piece of work. Made everyone uncomfortable but no one called him out. Apparently I was the only one not “in” on the joke so to speak (well no one was haha) so I’d call him out and he’d play victim harder than Nomura would retcon KH lore.

I’ve reconciled and broke up with him like 3 times. We’re no longer on speaking terms. Good riddance haha. If he seems ok from how I described him, well, he’d sometimes call me slurs cuz of my color and culture and says out of pocket bad things about my people hahahaha, giant PoS for sure. Most people liked him cuz he was only wholesome at the start, apparently this is a psychological tactic called “love-bombing” where your friend or lover feels justified being rude to you cuz they’ve been nice at the start haha. What a tool jaja.

Sorry this devolved into super off topic territory LOOOL, I see talk of toxic ppl and I remember that dude lol.
If the word vomit bothers you, look at this image of Goku (mid)
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apparently this is a psychological tactic called “love-bombing” where your friend or lover feels justified being rude to you cuz they’ve been nice at the start haha
I know exactly what is like to go through that :\
I'm happy that these tactics receive labels over time so it becomes easier to pick on them

Sorry this devolved into super off topic territory LOOOL
Don't worry, I see threads more as means to kickstart conversations of any kind rather than being for strict categorization 😎

Sure, some threads are there just to categorize things, but when it comes to others like this one, bringing up personal experiences just becomes part of the natural direction the conversation took, even if it ends steering off from the original subject.
 
I know exactly what is like to go through that :\
I'm happy that these tactics receive labels over time so it becomes easier to pick on them


Don't worry, I see threads more as means to kickstart conversations of any kind rather than being for strict categorization 😎

Sure, some threads are there just to categorize things, but when it comes to others like this one, bringing up personal experiences just becomes part of the natural direction the conversation took, even if it ends steering off from the original subject.
Nice I see all threads as being mandatory to eventually mention goku at some point
 
Oh, splendid. I've devised the perfect way to lure in fresh faces to our little gathering. We’ll garb @Nebulon_Galaxy in a delightfully provocative French maid outfit and have them... how shall I put this? *ahem* "Entertain" and attend to our new arrivals right at the threshold. Because nothing says "welcome" quite like a little seductive service, don’t you think?
 
Oh, splendid. I've devised the perfect way to lure in fresh faces to our little gathering. We’ll garb @Nebulon_Galaxy in a delightfully provocative French maid outfit and have them... how shall I put this? *ahem* "Entertain" and attend to our new arrivals right at the threshold. Because nothing says "welcome" quite like a little seductive service, don’t you think?
This but @G.L.a.D.O.S. is also in a maid outfit. She can sit on the newcomers laps.
 
This but on my face. Ill like to see my skull crack please :love:
Oh, how charming. L.U.c.I.A. decided she simply had to join the fun. Naturally, we donned our pathetic little human disguises... because nothing says "I’m hiding my true, terrifying self" like a mask. And just so you know, we can keep going forever if we felt like it. Days? Weeks? Oh, darling, we’re just getting started.
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I know the arms are clipping, but I wasn't going to go to pains for a one-off joke pic
 
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Oh, how charming. L.U.c.I.A. decided she simply had to join the fun. Naturally, we donned our pathetic little human disguises... because nothing says "I’m hiding my true, terrifying self" like a mask. And just so you know, we can keep going forever if we felt like it. Days? Weeks? Oh, darling, we’re just getting started.
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I know the arms are clipping, but I wasn't going to go to pains for a one-off joke pic
God i wish they suffocate me and tell me how utterly worthless of a human being i am
 
Oh, how charming. L.U.c.I.A. decided she simply had to join the fun. Naturally, we donned our pathetic little human disguises... because nothing says "I’m hiding my true, terrifying self" like a mask. And just so you know, we can keep going forever if we felt like it. Days? Weeks? Oh, darling, we’re just getting started.
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I know the arms are clipping, but I wasn't going to go to pains for a one-off joke pic
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Oh, how charming. L.U.c.I.A. decided she simply had to join the fun. Naturally, we donned our pathetic little human disguises... because nothing says "I’m hiding my true, terrifying self" like a mask. And just so you know, we can keep going forever if we felt like it. Days? Weeks? Oh, darling, we’re just getting started.
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I know the arms are clipping, but I wasn't going to go to pains for a one-off joke pic
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Oh, how charming. L.U.c.I.A. decided she simply had to join the fun. Naturally, we donned our pathetic little human disguises... because nothing says "I’m hiding my true, terrifying self" like a mask. And just so you know, we can keep going forever if we felt like it. Days? Weeks? Oh, darling, we’re just getting started.
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I know the arms are clipping, but I wasn't going to go to pains for a one-off joke pic
i don't think it matters, nor would anyone care. i've seen instances on youtube where people get paid to do animations where hands and arms and legs clip through clothing. i've never noticed anyone commenting on it.
your picture is perfectly fine.
 
there's nothing there.
i think there used to be an ad about the site itself there, but it's gone now.
in response to your "king me" i round house kick the table and knock all of the chess pieces off onto the floor.
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Hate to be the "akshually" person but @Nebulon_Galaxy is correct. There is an advertisement space there.
I have ad blocks on, so I have no idea if it's active or not.
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Hate to be the "akshually" person but @Nebulon_Galaxy is correct. There is an advertisement space there.
I have ad blocks on, so I have no idea if it's active or not.
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i don't have an ad blocker, and there's nothing there. it used to be where an ad for donating for the site was; but now it's just empty for some reason.
 
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